Episodes

This week, Juli and Hannah tackle the question, Am I entitled to sex—even good or regular sex—in my marriage?

Drawing on stories, biblical truth, and personal reflection, Juli challenges common assumptions about sex, covenant, and what it really means to love like Jesus did. This episode offers hope for couples navigating pain, unmet expectations, or seasons of healing—and it just might challenge everything you’ve been taught about sex and marriage.

Co-host: Hannah Nitz

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This week, Juli sits down with pastor and author Tony Scarcello to hear his story of wrestling with same-sex attraction from a young age, the weight of shame and silence he carried, and how God met him in the middle of it all.

Some conversations aren’t meant to be easy, they’re meant to help us grow. This is one of those. Tony’s story will challenge you, encourage you, and remind you how deeply we all need the grace of God.

Guest: Tony Scarcello

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This week, Juli sits down with Joe and Hannah to tackle the question: What do you do when you’re attracted to someone who isn’t your spouse?

Together, they unpack the reality that attraction outside of marriage isn’t a matter of if, but when. From the myth of “soulmates” to the powerful role of brain chemistry, this conversation explores why these feelings happen, and why they don’t have to define your choices.

You’ll also learn how small decisions, honesty, and intentional investment in your ...

Shame has a way of convincing us to hide. But Jesus doesn’t turn away from your shame. He steps toward it.

This week, Juli sits down with Dr. Carol Tanksley and Allie Mazur to shed light on the often unspoken reality of living with an STI. Together, they unpack the weight of shame, the fear of rejection, and the questions that can follow a diagnosis like herpes.

You’ll be reminded that while consequences of sin may linger, they don’t have the final word. Jesus meets us right in the middle of o...

Married sex doesn’t just “stay hot”...but you can fan the flames to create something even more meaningful (and longer-lasting) than honeymoon sex.

This week, we’re talking about how to keep married sex exciting over the long haul. You’ll learn about the shift that happens in long-term relationships, why desire can fade into routine, and what actually helps bring the spark back.

No theory. No pressure. Just real-life rhythms and practical ways you can reconnect emotionally and physically with y...

One of you is ready to leave early. The other is still looking for their shoes. Welcome to marriage.

This week, Juli and Mike are on stage at the Love Like You Mean It Cruise! Live and unfiltered, they talk honestly about how their differences have shown up in parenting, intimacy, and their pace of life—and how they’ve learned to let those differences draw them closer, instead of driving them apart.

Guest: Mike Slattery

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Some wounds don’t just live in your memories… they live in your body, in your relationships, and in your sense of safety.

If you’ve ever wondered, “Can I be whole after sexual trauma?,” you’re not alone—and you’re not beyond healing.

That's the question Juli is tackling this week. You’ll hear why sexual trauma uniquely affects identity and intimacy, how shame and self-blame keep us stuck, and what real sexual wholeness looks like.

This conversation is for anyone who has experienced sexual tra...

Their love story made headlines—but not for the reasons you might expect.

In this conversation, CD and Melody Fabien share a completely different vision for dating—one rooted in purpose, boundaries, and hearing God’s voice.

If you’re tired of hook-ups, ghosting, and the pressure of fast-paced dating, this episode is for you.

Guest: CD & Melody Fabien

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Many married couples carry a secret: one of them doesn’t like sex—they may even dread it. For years, sex has felt more like obligation than pleasure, and they’ve quietly believed something must be wrong with them.

This week, we’re tackling the unspoken question: “What if I’m married and I don’t like sex?”

We’ll talk about the real reasons sex can feel difficult or even painful, and call out a few common lies that keep couples stuck.

If you’ve ever felt confused, disappointed, or alone in your...